Hopefully, by now, you have a plan to write your mate a few well thought out, meaningful, heart felt love letters, notes, or cards.
The next step is to plan a presentation. There are lots of ways to do this, but it seems best to add an element of fun and surprise. I recommend starting about a week before Valentine's Day (this is also great for any special occasion or no occasion at all). Leave the first one somewhere for your mate to find during the day maybe the refrigerator, the towel cabinet, a clothing drawer, the car, etc. The element of surprise really creates an overwhelming rush of excitement and fun. Then, over the next few days, leave the others to be found one at a time in different places. If you skip a day and hide them irregularly, it adds to the suspense. If you want to get real creative, leave clues to be found that lead your mate to the next card. If you do this, be careful to be specific and clear with your clues. All of this takes planning so don't put it off.
The next step is to plan a presentation. There are lots of ways to do this, but it seems best to add an element of fun and surprise. I recommend starting about a week before Valentine's Day (this is also great for any special occasion or no occasion at all). Leave the first one somewhere for your mate to find during the day maybe the refrigerator, the towel cabinet, a clothing drawer, the car, etc. The element of surprise really creates an overwhelming rush of excitement and fun. Then, over the next few days, leave the others to be found one at a time in different places. If you skip a day and hide them irregularly, it adds to the suspense. If you want to get real creative, leave clues to be found that lead your mate to the next card. If you do this, be careful to be specific and clear with your clues. All of this takes planning so don't put it off.
Plan on getting started right away!
The main thing here is that it screams out,"I love you and went to a lot of extra effort to make sure you know it!" This will always lift up your mate.
This exercise will pay off in Big rewards in your marriage!
Refresh the Romance this year!
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